Learn about SMTP for transferring emails, and determine whether to use your own server or a third-party email server depends on the resources and requirements.
Updated Jun 30, 2026

Hundreds of billions of emails get transferred daily because of their worldwide popularity as a reliable communication medium. But have you ever considered how your email messages reach the intended recipient once you send them?
This article will introduce one of the methods used to transfer emails: SMTP, and its key concepts.
SMTP, Simple Mail Transfer Protocol, is a collection of communication guidelines for sending emails over the internet. SMTP is among the most widely used email protocols, along with protocols like IMAP (Internet Message Access Protocol) and POP (Post Office Protocol). Most famous email clients, such as Outlook, Gmail, and Apple Mail, support SMTP email protocol for message sending.
SMTP is the protocol that defines the rule set for digital communication, whereas the SMTP server is the application that handles the email sending, receiving, and relaying processes. Therefore, it is crucial to have an SMTP server for the email to reach its destination.
There are two types of SMTP servers:
There are many email service providers that we can use for business communication and day-to-day emailing. But SMTP server is a better solution as it addresses most of the limitations of those email service providers.
For example, dedicated SMTP servers can handle bulk emails and are scalable.
Along with SMTP, the two other most commonly used email protocols are IMAP and POP. However, several factors make SMTP different from these two email protocols.
Read more: IMAP vs. POP3 vs. SMTP
The following steps describe how email transfer happens with SMTP.
We can use multiple SMTP ports as communication endpoints to send our emails over a network.
SMTP uses a set of commands to power the transmission between servers to deliver emails. Each of these commands composes of one keyword followed by one or more arguments.
Below are ten critical commands you should know when working with SMTP.
1. HELO - It is the first and most essential STMP command as this starts the email sending processor and identifies the sender server. "EHLO" is another alternative command to initiate a conversation.
2. MAIL FROM - States the sender's email address and indicates a new email transference is about to happen to the SMTP server. If the server accepts this transaction, it will respond with status code 250.
3. RCPT TO - Specifies the email recipient, and command repetition allows adding more recipients one by one.
4. SIZE - Informs the remote server about the size of the email in bytes.
5. DATA - The email content starts transferring to the SMTP server, and the server responds with a 345 reply code.
6. VRFY - This command is to verify whether a particular username or email address exists.
7. AUTH - A command to extend the security by authenticating the client to the server using the username and password.
8. TURN - Reverse the roles of the client and the sender without using a new connection.
9. QUIT - This is a mandatory command to terminate the connection after sending the email.
10. RSET - We can use this command to abort the current email transaction if there is an error. For instance, terminate the process without closing the connection if you accidentally gave an incorrect recipient email.
Several situations like blocks and bounces can fail the email sending process. So, the receiving server uses the SMTP error codes to indicate such errors. Therefore, it is crucial to understand these error codes to identify and fix the issues.
Normal Server: This regular SMTP server is to acknowledge and queue emails to deliver. This server allows both inbound and outbound email delivery, and it is necessary to specify the local domains handled by the server. If an email comes from an alternate domain, it is sent to the destination if relaying is allowed.
SMTP Proxy Server: A proxy server is not entirely an SMTP server. It needs another actual SMTP server to connect to and has the capability of monitoring emails, altering content, and even blocking unnecessary emails. The users can use proxy servers only for inbound email delivery.
SMTP Relay Vs. SMTP Server: The SMTP server is the server where a mail client connects to send emails, whereas the SMTP relay passes the emails coming from other servers to the correct SMTP server.
1. Running Your Own SMTP Server
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2. Using a Third-Party Email Service:
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Determining whether to use your own server or a third-party email server depends on the resources and requirements.
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